#thursdaytea Are you a side chick?

I hate the term "side chick" or "main chick" unfortunately many woman indulge in "side chick" behavior and accept being a secret.

We all know someone who's an in denial "side chick". Usually these women only reap the benefits of sex and are comfortable saying things like "we know what it is", "what's understood ain't gotta be explained", "he know where home is", etc

Here's why playing a side chick or main chick role is ruining relationships

1.) No set expectations

2.) Multiple sex partners

3.) Lack of respect

4.) Little or no reciprocated feelings

5.) Minimum time spent

6.) No exposure

7.) Complicated lifestyle

If you identify with any of the previous mention you're probably a side chick. Do better.

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