Stop "Chillin" with Him... You Deserve a Date! #ThursdayTea

Ladies....Stop setting yourself up to be a cutty buddy! You deserve a date! For some reason our generation is satisfied with just "chillin". It usually goes something like this... you and a guy exchange a few text messages and phone calls and you chill at each other's place, right? Normally a chill session will consist of weed, Netflix, alcohol, brief conversation and then someone will initiate sex! It's up to you to put an end to this behavior. Here's a few ways to snag a date...

1. Stop lying to yourself! You know a dog just wants a bone! Get a clue.
2. Ask the guy to meet you in a public place
3. Have some respect for your damn self!
4. Tell the guy when and where you're available to meet up! Your place or his place is not an option.
5. Treat men how you want to be treated. All niggas are not dogs!

Dates don't have to be expensive... The park and Starbucks are my favorite spots! Dates are a great way to see who is really interested in you before you catch feelings.